{"id":2406,"date":"2020-05-12T14:13:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-12T14:13:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.heartbasedmedicine.org\/?p=2019"},"modified":"2025-09-30T11:53:46","modified_gmt":"2025-09-30T09:53:46","slug":"facing-fear-pandemic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.heartbasedmedicine.org\/en\/facing-fear-pandemic\/","title":{"rendered":"Facing Fear in the COVID-19 Pandemic"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-2406\"  class=\"panel-layout\" >\n<div id=\"pg-2406-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" >\n<div id=\"pgc-2406-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\"  data-weight=\"1\" ><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"pg-2406-1\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" >\n<div id=\"pgc-2406-1-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\"  data-weight=\"1\" >\n<div id=\"panel-2406-1-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"0\" data-style=\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n<p class=\"p1\">This last weekend, I went to visit my mother, with my three children. They live in an old house in Arlesheim, a beautiful old city with a cathedral. My parents live together in an old house which used to be the bishop\u2019s guesthouse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As we got close, I drove up in front of the building, and pressed my horn as I usually do, as a greeting. When my mother leaned out of the window, my blood froze. What I saw reminded me of paintings I have seen of Jesus on the cross. I was looking into the eyes of death. She was pale, her hair was all over the place, and she looked 10 years older than her actual age of 87. The deep frown on her face created such deep furrows that she was unrecognizable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She just muttered a \u201chello,\u201d in a weak, timid, and broken voice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u201cWhat is going on, Mom?\u201d I asked, trying to calm the panic I was feeling. \u201cWhat is happening to you?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c I don\u2019t understand this world,\u201d she said. \u201cWhere have you been all these years? I haven\u2019t seen you for so long.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u201cMom, come, let\u2019s sit down. Let\u2019s go to the living room.\u201d I helped her walk over to the other room, which has a luscious oak parquet wooden floor. We could look through the windows over to the marketplace, with the old cathedral behind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u201cI\u2019m so alone,\u201d my mother lamented. \u201cIt\u2019s all because of this virus. I have to stay in the apartment with your father all day. Living in this bedroom and living room,\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t have a life anymore. I\u2019m all alone. I used to go out, I went to the marketplace, I talked to the woman who has the organic food stall, I talked to all the farmers ladies, and the neighbors. That is what gave meaning to my day. But now I don\u2019t get to do any of that. They have closed the market, and I\u2019m not allowed to go out.\u201d My mother pointed out of the window, at the empty marketplace. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cLook, there\u2019s nobody there. It\u2019s like a ghost town.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She became more emotional and started to cry. \u201cI don\u2019t understand any of it\u2026 I don\u2019t see you for years\u2026 Now the town is deserted\u2026 I\u2019m all alone\u2026 I don\u2019t see anything worth living for anymore\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u201cMom, it\u2019s okay,\u201d I responded, in my most soothing voice. The children were sitting quietly next to me, looking a little shocked. \u201cActually, you saw us just a couple of days ago. Don\u2019t you remember? And then we have Facebook, we can speak every day. And now we\u2019ve come to visit you. The virus is soon going to be over, and then you can go out again.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou don\u2019t understand, Jan,\u201d she replied. \u201cI am of a different generation. I\u2019m used to looking into other people\u2019s eyes, where people touch each other, and they actually meet and greet when they are on the streets. Nowadays, people don\u2019t even look up from these little electronic screens they carry everywhere. It\u2019s not the same. And it\u2019s not the same as sitting in front of you and holding your hand. That is what makes life worth living for.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0We went on talking, backward and forwards, my mother and me. I tried to offer more and more reassurance and logical arguments that things would be all right. But she didn\u2019t want any of it. Finally, I just looked into my mother\u2019s eyes, I held her gaze, and she looked back. Several minutes passed. No one said anything. Finally, I asked the question. \u201cMom, what is worth living for, for you?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She didn\u2019t have any trouble answering this question immediately. \u201cLook, I\u2019m 87. What is worth living for is love, is being connected, being with people. This is what makes me feel alive, and gives meaning to my life. I need to share aliveness with other people.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u201cWow,\u201d I said, surprised by her sudden energy. \u201cWhat do you mean by that? What does it look like, to share aliveness in life with people?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt\u2019s about being kind with each other, showing interest in each other. It\u2019s about touching each other and helping each other. And it\u2019s about me giving my love to other people.\u201d She put her hand to her heart, with an imploring look in her eyes. She started to loosen up, as she became more animated. Her shoulders were dropping down, and she became softer. \u201cYes,\u201d she smiled. \u201cThis is what I\u2019m looking for. It is so beautiful for me when you come to visit, so beautiful when we go out, and I can meet the neighbors, and share our life stories.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMom, what are you afraid of?\u201d I asked her. \u201cWhat is the worst thing that can happen to you? Are you afraid to die?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhat are you talking about?\u201d she replied. She was getting animated, irritated, and she raised her voice. \u201cThis is death, essentially. Living here, just the two of us. No connections. Everyone on their stupid phones. This is death. There is nothing alive about this. Nothing whatsoever.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSo,\u201d I said to her. \u201cIf you\u2019re not afraid of death if you\u2019re feeling like this is what death is like, if this is being dead while alive, why don\u2019t you take a risk? Would you be willing to do that?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI would be willing to risk my life,\u201d she replied.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cHow about you go to the marketplace tomorrow, and just sit there,\u201d I suggested. \u201cAs you can see, there is no one there. Maybe every 10 minutes someone passes by. They will probably be stuck in their phones, worried about something, wearing a mask, and feeling afraid. So, Mom, what about if you were to just greet the people? Greet them from the bottom of your heart. Send them your love, and point them to the beautiful skies that you are enjoying, and the bird song. Make people aware of the things that you feel are worth living for, and worth sharing.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was as if I had just unlocked a prison door. I had given my mother the permission she desperately needed. She became suddenly radiant. Now she had a huge smile on her face, very calm and content. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My mother was back again. The color change in her face, she lightened up, she relaxed her body position and became quite animated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cReally?\u201d she asked me, surprised. \u201cCan I do that? Should I do that?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYes,\u201d I replied. After all, I am a doctor. I have some knowledge of these things. \u201cGo out there, and do it. Keep your 2 meters distance, and nothing bad will happen to you or anyone else. Those who are uncomfortable will wear their mask. \u201cBut if you don\u2019t want to hide your smile, then why don\u2019t you go out without one?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She looked completely inspired. \u201cYou know what, Jan?\u201d she said. \u201cI will. I will do that.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h5 class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">*<\/span><\/h5>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next day, I called my father. They had indeed gone down together to the market. Walking together, and my mother became busy greeting people and sharing her happiness with others. My father told me she was completely changed.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0As a doctor, and a professor of infectious disease at the university hospital, as someone who was written dozens of academic papers on infectious disease, you might be surprised to hear that I encouraged my own mother to go out in the marketplace without a mask. She knows that the purpose of her old age much better than I do. It is to share love and remind the people who are living in worries and digital isolation of what life can be like. To her, this was more important than living in isolation and fear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Heart Based Medicine organization.\u00a0 They are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. They are the expressed opinion of the author for the sole purpose of educating the public regarding their health and wellbeing. Individual results may vary. 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